It all happenend during the teenage of an youngster. Amidst late twenties the recap of a story goes on. What happened seems a huge storm, avid memories, appearing in front of him like a slideshow.
Life has come a long way feels the youngster. It all started post college pass out and entry into an MNC. Clad in the most eye catchy dress coloured white, the female caught his attention. The path took its turn and focus of a career took a second priority. Bunking office hours, friends helping him provide a reason, romantic film song humming at the back of his mind made his day, life was just blissful.
6 years had passed since his separation, diaries, photos, albums all memories, lying on his table.
Welcome you all the topic of Arranged marriage vs Love marriage.
I guess there is always an air of assumption that love marriage may be bad and is not the right way to lead life. We find many oppositions to a love marriage, but love is everywhere. If our parents had failed to love each other, a beautiful environment cannot be setup for their kids. Why people see some as love marriages and some as arranged marriages is a million dollar question.
Love threads back to the age old tradition since Romeo and Juliet. Today's modern world has lots of factors influencing marriages and one can guess Indian films make majority of the contribution. There has hardly been an arranged marriage scenario in movies and its always a love one between the heroes and heroines.
One can eventually not help but wonder whether the recent trends has just blown out of proportions, with the sanctity not being maintained and the purpose of love being forgotten or mistaken.
It's been shown in different angles and the media having a huge reach in the modern era has drastically influenced the outlook of youth. It actually influenced expectations from both sides to an entirely different level. Girls expect a heroine touch and their presentation in society is way too different. Guys outlook in terms of physical appearances has made deep inroads. True, Indian films have always shown love in a beautiful angle, but what has transpired is that the film ends once hero and heroine join hands together. It is assumed they live a very happy life once they had joined hands.
A majority of people, are forced to conclude that love happens in an youngsters life just to get married.
On the other hand, arranged marriages cannot be successful, if the lead pair fail to love each other.
Love is a very natural bond and it does not just happen just between a man and a woman,a young couple. It happens with all. When two people join hands together a bond named love is ignited. Dad loves his sons and daughters and moms do the same. Children grow up together and the love bond presents under a different name called the friendship.
If the same love happens between youngsters of opposite sex its a relationship.
So one can just say irrespective of the situation, Love is something that is eternal. Its always present and can never go unnoticed. It is the duty of we people to realize that the bond is very pure. Just because various people are involved perspective to love might differ, but never has the bond changed right from its origin.
So to the conclusion, is love marriage or arranged marriage, which is the best? Marriages are just a scenario, love is eternal. Love marriages won't be successful, if it ends in marriage and arranged marriage won't be successful if love is not present.
Love makes life beautiful. Love is life.
Thank you all readers for reading a post that just talks about love. I might not be sure, if i had spoken it correctly. But I can definitely say, its with love and only love that I had written the post.
Signing off from you people, have a fabulous life ahead :)
